Making an ass out of u and me (assuming positive intent)
Episode 77 · December 17th, 2021 · 49 mins 58 secs
About this Episode
In this episode, rachel and Kendall talk about:
- Dietary constraints for gout sufferers
- Non-traditional Thanksgiving fare and excitement about cabbage rolls
- Kendall's adventures in escalating vegetarianism
- The definition of "assuming positive intent"
- How the power dynamic matters
- Why it's unreasonable to expect marginalized people to assume positive intent by default
- Kendall realizes once again he's playing the game on "easy" mode
- When assuming positive intent works well, why it's valuable and to whom
- Why this episode has the "explicit" tag :)
- A time when Kendall did not assume positive intent
- The dangers of making "assume positive intent" a corporate policy
- How this relates to injustice in the greater social world
- Kendall's unflagging optimism about people
- rachel's tactics for navigating a situation where you can't assume positive intent
- Why intent is not as important as impact
- How to serve a colleague or employee who reports discrimination
- Our desire for more topics to discuss, tweet us at @djpiebob and @blatanterror with your requests!
Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3